Thoughts that make a Difference !!

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

Love is Beautiful!!!

It was a busy morning, approximately 8:30 am., when an elderly
gentleman in his 80's, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He
stated that he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be
over an hour before someone would able to see him. I saw him
looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another
patient, I would evaluate his wound. On exam, it was well healed, so I
talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his
sutures and redress his wound.

While taking care of his wound, we began to engage in conversation. I
asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he
was in such a hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to
the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.

I then inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there
for a
while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's disease. As we
talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.

He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not
recognized him in five years now.

I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even
though she doesn't know who you are?"

He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I
still know who she is."

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and
thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life."

True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an
acceptance of all that is, has been, will be and will not be.

With all the jokes and fun that are in e-mails, sometimes there are
some that come along that have an important message,
and this is one of those kind.
Just had to share it with you all.

Oh, by the way, peace is seeing a sunset and
knowing who to thank.

The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything;
they
just make the best of everything they have.

4 comments:

Unknown said...

hey anu u a med student too ??

Unknown said...

hey anusha... check out the link.. ive tagged u.. continue the chain if possible.. bye tc..
http://drshashikant.blogspot.com/2007/09/tagged.html

Anonymous said...

very touching narration. I was moved. There is still some sanity left in mankind only because of such people.

Anusha Srinivasaraghavan said...
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